I watched some of the Global Leadership Summit videos over the weekend and have to admit they depressed me.  It felt like another missed opportunity.  Hopeful rhetoric infuses a blurry and misdirected vision for a limited and inwardly focused future.  It is all about us — and not all of us.  Transformational mission is off the table; we want to focus on increasing the number of “vital” congregations (with the definition of vital being “big and busy”).  Evangelistic scriptural holiness is replaced by inviting people to The United Methodist Church.  The fundamental practice of the means of grace is reduced to institutional accountability.  Spiritual leadership is limited to clergy.  Unleashing the potential of the denomination is hinged to making dysfunctional agencies cost less and work more.  If we can just preserve our institution we will somehow figure out what we ought to be doing…

I link my misgivings about the Leadership Summit to an ever-increasing number of people talking about the need for “resurrection” in The United Methodist Church.  This troubles me, especially when I hear it coming from our bishops and agency leaders.  First, it is a clear admission that they believe we are dead.  You cannot resurrect that which is living, so our church must be dead.  This is a painful assault on the hundreds of thousands of men and women who have given their life to Christ and their service to The United Methodist Church.  It demeans and denigrates those who faithfully fight to do good work locally and around the world.  We may be injured, but we’re not dead, and resurrection talk is nothing more than surrender and abdication on the part of leaders.  They may choose to give up on the church, but there are many of us who aren’t ready to lie down yet.  There are many of us who believe we are in exile rather than death’s domain.

The church is in exile — we are stranger’s in a strange land — and a severe challenge to our future are the number of people who accept our displacement as normal.  We have both accommodated and assimilated the values of our captors.  Agency heads who hire crass marketers to give us a “brand” instead of an identity; researchers who focus on decay, death and decline as motivation to change; leaders who suggest we track statistics instead of pray, evangelize and serve; limiting our leadership focus to clergy in a time of laity empowerment; and hosting meetings that cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to talk about how poor our stewardship is are a few examples.

The scene from Monty Python and the Holy Grail comes to mind where plague sweeps through the villages and men pull carts through town calling, “Bring out your dead!”  One man carries his father out to the cart, who is swinging over his shoulder saying, “I’m not dead yet.  I’m not dead yet!”  I am discouraged by the number of leaders in our church ready to cut our losses and simply toss the church on the heap.  I don’t believe they do this for any reason beyond losing hope and lacking vision.  We don’t remember what “home” looks like any more — we’ve been gone too long.  The church growth movement of the late 20th century corrupted our values.  We adopted one hundred and one business concepts without translating them to the church in spiritual language.  We turned our seminaries into academic proving grounds, where practical ministry is viewed as a pathetic waste of teaching time.  Boards of Ordained Ministry ceased trying to cultivate good leadership and instead assumed the role of weeding out bad.  Our energy shifted from “becoming” to “being,” a shift from continuous improvement, learning and development to managing the status quo to survive another day.  As a denomination we have stopped moving toward a Promised Land.  Instead, we wander in the wilderness.

It may be true that “you can’t go home again” — what we left behind is forever changed.  Our future does not lie in our past.  Yet, we can still learn from our past to create a new future, to come home again for the very first time, if you will.  At our best, United Methodists are a people who give, who serve, who witness.  Wesley’s vision of spreading scriptural holiness across the land may need some redefinition and translation, but it is a homecoming worth exploring.  Our movement was never to build churches but to create community.  Even communities that lacked a sanctuary to worship in often had a fellowship hall in which to gather for spiritual formation and Christian education.  And the formation and education wasn’t “information” based, but experiential and practical — teaching people how to live their lives (behavior) not simple what to think (belief).  Our focus didn’t used to be on what we shouldn’t do and shouldn’t be and shouldn’t believe — we didn’t have time to waste — but on what we could do and could be and could believe.  Today we spend much time talking about what we don’t have, and what we can’t do and afford, and how much we’ve lost — what a bummer.  We live in despair that The United Methodist Church might cease to exist, so instead of strategizing how we might most effectively be the hands and heart and voice of Christ, we focus on our processes, practices and procedures to preserve the institution.

We continue to think in reductionist, “either/or” terms — grossly limiting our potential.  I keep hearing the phrase “adaptive challenge” and it reminds me of thinking from about 30 years ago when authors drew the false dichotomy between “technical” and “adaptive” leadership.  The point — as I remember it, like I say this is old stuff — is that we often make the mistake of looking for technical solutions to problems requiring adaptive responses.  For example, if you break a bone, the solution is to set the bone — a technical solution to a specific problem.  But if a person comes in with a swollen, bruised arm, but no sign of a break, a doctor must probe a bit before making a diagnosis.  Merely splinting the arm and putting it in a cast would be irresponsible — you can’t apply a technical solution to every problem.  The point made — with some validity — is that effective leadership requires the wisdom and discernment to tell the difference between situations requiring technical and adaptive responses.  But what people realized almost immediately (back in the 1980s) is that most situations require both in dynamic tension.  Take driving a car as an example?  Does driving a car require technical or adaptive response?  Yes, is the only answer.  There are very technical, very specific processes in the act of driving.  Creativity will not be your friend — there are some parts of the car that will only do what they were designed to do, no matter how adaptive you choose to be.  Ah, but there are a thousand variables to driving that must be taken into account.  Road conditions, weather conditions, time of day, other drivers, kids playing ball, animals, etc., make even a drive to the corner store a potential adventure.  If you cannot apply adaptive thinking/responding you should not ever drive.  Either/or thinking will kill you or someone else. 

So, today I keep hearing thirty-year-old “either/or” thinking that I haven’t read anywhere since Ron Heifetz’s twenty-five year-old classic, Leadership Without Easy Answers, being spouted as “new” wisdom to guide our church.  No wonder so many people think we need resurrection instead of restoration!  We are so far behind the curve that we’re motionless and inert.

Coming home will require leadership.  But post-exile leadership needs a clear focus on our identity and purpose — who are we and why are we here?  What are our core values and related central beliefs?  Does our polity actually support and illuminate our doctrine?  Do we have a grasp of our theological task?  Are we aligned with our Social Principles and are our principles relevant?  Can we make the practice of the means of grace — at the very least the basics — prayer, study, service, accountability and celebration of the sacraments — central to our common life?  Can we let go of the things that divide us long enough to rally around Christ?  We don’t need more foot-shuffling, waffling, hemming, hawing, embarrassed awkward pauses, superficial rhetoric to remind us that we are in the wrong place at the wrong time.  But we’re not dead, we’re simply lost.  We don’t need resurrection (yet), but reform, renewal, restoration and a return to what we do best.

34 responses to “Dead, Or In Exile?”

  1. larry Avatar
    larry

    ” I cannot say suffering will end, but suffering without a loving response can end.”

  2. Steven Avatar
    Steven

    There are people who are working their tails off to do good work for the church and all you can do is sit back and take cheap shots. Could you actually do something to support the church instead of constantly tearing it down? And you of all people have no business criticizing our bishops and board and agency heads. There is a very simple explanation for why you no longer serve the General Board of Discipleship. You don’t know what you are talking about.

    1. dave werner Avatar
      dave werner

      Steven, please re-read Dan’s second paragraph, noting especially these words: “This is a painful assault on the hundreds of thousands of men and women who have given their life to Christ and their service to The United Methodist Church. It demeans and denigrates those who faithfully fight to do good work locally and around the world.”

      As for me and my friends, our experience teaches us that Dan not only knows what he’s talking about, but he’s working hard and smart to serve Christ and the Church.

  3. Zuhleika Avatar
    Zuhleika

    Thank you Dan. Yesterday’s lectionary included the Vally of Dry Bones – and your writing made me think of it. It seems that the leaders consider UMC to be a vally of dry bones – with no life left in them. I do sometimes feel like I am in exile – trying to find my way home.

    You said, ” limiting our leadership focus to clergy in a time of laity empowerment;” – one of my sore points. There are so many – laity included, who think that if it isn’t the Pastor doing the work that somehow it isn’t worth as much. Too sad considering back in John Wesley’s day it was almost ALL laity!

    And community – it is so important and is often neglected.

    I am also concerned that church meetings seem to be no different than business meetings. If there is not difference, then why are we called “a church”?

    1. Rex Nelson Avatar

      All laity and extra-institutional, then counter-institutional. Is the human imperative to structure and dominate a false god? To embrace salvation, must the temple be torn down?

  4. dave werner Avatar
    dave werner

    i’m trying to catch up, having been on “holyday.”

    Dan, you write in part: “At our best, United Methodists are a people who give, who serve, who witness. Wesley’s vision of spreading scriptural holiness across the land may need some redefinition and translation, but it is a homecoming worth exploring. Our movement was never to build churches but to create community. Even communities that lacked a sanctuary to worship in often had a fellowship hall in which to gather for spiritual formation and Christian education.”

    While i was generally largely consumed by the need to maintain congregation (and church building) while active in pastoral ministry, i did experience something of which you write, i think, while serving as second pastor of a new church start. We had no building and no parsonage (this latter a shock for me). For my time as pastor, we rented two different warehouses. (Yes, this entailed a move from one to the other.)

    Though that congregation all along intended to build a church building (and did after my time), my experience was that of building community in the warehouse. Not fancy, for sure, but i recall how weddings and funerals and worship services and Christmas Eve services all had a special way of sanctifying the space, or maybe bringing forward the sanctity of all space. “i am the church, you are the church; we are the church together….”

    True, a lot of the energy of the congregation went into fixing up the space to meet our needs, but the primary investment of the energy was to build the sense of caring for one another and our larger community. Alas, many in the larger community regarded us (a part of The UMC!) as sort of a fringe group (“The poor folks don’t even have a building!”), but we certainly had a ministry!

    Upon appointment to another charge, i left as the second or third oldest man in the congregation and began the next week as one of the younger men in my new charge. But at least there was a “real” church (building)….

  5. Rex Nelson Avatar

    The next question, then, is “Can those preparing the path of becoming succeed in the Global Leadership Summit church?”

  6. Mike Lindstrom Avatar

    I too felt the harsh sting of the rhetoric. I know so many who strive to give so much. Many of us are so bogged down in meeting the criteria of accountability set before us that we have little left for creatively living into the vision God has of us and our churches. We feel compelled to give answers to questions we see as irrelevant and it distracts us from a life seeking more of God.

  7. Braxton Cotton Avatar
    Braxton Cotton

    Your comments made me think of Gil Rendle’s book, Leading Change in the Congregation. From what I have read (and I still have a ways to go), he appears to advocate taking time to understand the problem from a general systems approach before rushing to apply a “fix.” Living to serve God and God’s people should never boil down to applying knee-jerk reactions to either anticipated or unanticipated “opportunities.”

    Thank you for your insights and willingness to keep them before the people of The United Methodist Church.

    Peace.

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