I have been writing recently about reframing our current conversation about the church from one of doom, gloom, decay, and demise to one of faith, hope, vision and relevancy.  My central thesis is that we are unlikely to attract new people with the message, “Our ship is sinking and we don’t know what to do about it, but we’re rethinking it — come join us!”  Concepts like “death Tsunami” are statements of fear, not faith, and solemnly stating that we are “just being realistic” is a clear indicator that we walk by sight rather than faith.  Some call my desire to move toward a Promised Land instead of merely escaping Egypt naive.  I can see their pessimism if the only two choices they can imagine are short-sighted fatalism or insipid simplification.  I don’t believe we are limited to just these two options.  Let me share a story that I can use to illustrate my point.

A colleague of mine has been living and working in Japan for the past eighteen months.  He told me this story of the March earthquake.  He was in a busy business center on the Friday afternoon of the quake.  As the world was turned upside down, hundreds of people ran from a corporate office in a panic.  Three men, all leaders in the companies occupying the building, began shouting.  (Forgive my spelling errors, but I don’t know Japanese and am not sure I will get this right…) The first man bellowed, “Jishin! shinsai!” two words meaning “earthquake;” the second was shouting “Hashire!” or “run.”  The third man was shouting “kariya!” which means shelter, and he was leading people to a reinforced  safety bunker.  Who do you think people responded best to?

In our current church situation, we have people screaming “earthquake” (or Death Tsunami).  They are focusing on the problem.  They hope to scare people into action.  They are employing “the sky is falling” school of management.  Actually demotivational, because as anxiety and despair increase, people’s horizon’s shrink and they are crippled from doing any kind of critical or lateral thinking.  I don’t think anyone is unaware that we have problems.  People who lack solutions have no other option but to dwell on the brokenness.  Unfortunately, this is not leadership no matter how you dress it up.

Neither is the “run” option.  The “don’t just stand there, DO something,” school of management results in analysis paralysis where we confuse activity with progress.  But if you aren’t moving TOWARD a solution (Promised Land) you are simply wandering in the wilderness.  Evidence of this is a call to action rather than a call to effectiveness or mission.  It leads us to identify the same problems we identified 20, 30, 40 years ago and say, “well, this time, we’re really serious!”  Get busy, work harder, do more, rearrange deck chairs faster, hold more meetings, spend more money, hurry-up-and-produce-paper-the-boss-is-watching!!  But the measure of effective activity is outcomes.  We still don’t have clear outcomes in mind, and where there is no vision, the people perish.

We need people who have laser-focus on solutions — who don’t keep saying “we’re in crisis and we’d better do something quick.”  The somethings need to be defined and they need to be designed to produce specific outcomes.  Preserving the institutional United Methodist Church isn’t good enough.  We are not an end, but a means to an end.  We have defined our end, our purpose (for good or ill) as making disciples for the transformation of the world.”  The problem is, the system we have isn’t designed to do this — which leaves us a choice to make: 1) change our mission to fit our system (bad idea), 2) change our system to fit our mission (great idea, but painful and costly), 3) go back to square one and figure out who we want to be when we grow up (an admission that we really haven’t know what we’re doing — which is why we keep hiring outsiders to tell us who we are…), or 4) enter a period of serious prayerful discernment where we honestly put everything on the table and refuse to protect our sacred cows (gutsy, risky, exciting, scary, and requiring visionary, decisive leadership).  There may be many more options, but I merely wanted to clarify that we are not stuck in a simple “either/or” situation.

I believe we are too constrained by fear, self-interest, and survival to step out in true faith to become a new thing.  We will rethink ourselves to death before we will make deep change.  We are exploring some significant cosmetic changes, but the analogy that comes to mind is liposuction as a solution to obesity — getting rid of the fat changes appearances, but it does not necessarily bring health.  Until a proper diet, regimen of exercise and rest, and a fundamental shift of values occurs, all you have is the same old sick organism in a slightly different sack.  I think we can make the necessary changes to become the church we need to be, but don’t really want to.  If we make the leap, we will be smaller (numerically), disposing of a large number of inappropriate facilities, training leadership differently with significantly different structures of accountability and evaluation.  We will deconstruct the monolithic super-structure and help conferences develop indigenous leadership to do what the “experts” do for/to us presently.  We will collaborate more, legislate less; engage more, spending much less time and money on meetings.  We can make these, and other truly transformational changes, but only if we set the self-interested, survivalist institutional preservation mindset aside.

23 responses to “When Faced With Two Options Choose the Third”

  1. Will Avatar

    Option 4 is the one I would chose, and in fact, my associate pastor and I did just that for our church over 7 years ago when we felt the momentum our congregation had begun to wane after some positive movement for the first time in decades. We proposed a 4 month season of prayer and fasting for spiritual discernment. Along with that, we also proposed suspending most activities and meetings of the church (except for worship) during this time while we held prayer gatherings at various days, times and locations.

    Needless to say, the response to this suggestion was amazingly negative. People actually told us that they would not pray and wondered at the good that prayer would do anyway. You would have thought we were proposing the abolition of chocolate or something.

    7 years on, I am still here, struggling to make a difference as the church as continued to decline to the point where it will be necessary for it to become a part of a circuit or accept a part-time pastor.

  2. Rex Nelson Avatar
    Rex Nelson

    “Comfort.” Roman Palestine had a lot of comfort for many. Good roads, greater security, economic growth through trade – all the things that come with Rome. If Herod had not tried to make Judea the “Jewel in the Crown” by monument building that had hundreds of times more direct economic impact than our Moon shot, even more people would have been comfortable, and “Hosanna!” would have been much quieter. That wasn’t God’s plan. I’m not sure re-growing familiar comfort is for us either. Jesus’ message was not “Throw off the Roman yoke” but “Love one another”. He was saying what you value is irrelevant to God’s plan. Our Egypt is not fewer numbers, but less love. Our actions reflect our human values, without much consideration for God’s. So, Dan, where is the New Jerusalem? What is our Revelation?

  3. Nestor Gerente - Grace UMC in Long Beach Avatar
    Nestor Gerente – Grace UMC in Long Beach

    You said “We will rethink ourselves to death before we will make deep change.” Yet, as Christians, death is not the final word but resurrection. Perhaps, dying/death of our old ways is necessary to achieve a profound change.

  4. Jeff Uhler Avatar
    Jeff Uhler

    I would add one item to your list: “I believe we are too constrained by fear, self-interest, and survival to step out in true faith to become a new thing.” That would be “comfort.” Some – maybe many – of our congregations could care less about what the denomination is doing – decline or growth. They are content merely being the local congregation as they have always been.

    When a leader (clergy or lay) begins to identify the reality (sight) of years of decline, and challenge the way things are done,offering the picture of a different future (faith) they are ignored or criticized. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard “I’m just old fashioned. I’m not going to change!” and that attitude carries through the congregation in which it is spoken.

    I do like your option #4 – calling people to prayer – and in some places this will be the catalyst. Someone once said, “You can tell how popular a preacher is by the numbers in worship on Sunday morning. You can tell how popular a church is by the numbers at fellowship dinners. You can tell how popular Jesus is by the numbers at prayer meeting.”

    This statement, of course, is a simplification, but my experience has been that it’s hard to get a significant amount of folks who will meet for the type of prayer of which you speak. But I have gathered those who were willing and that made all the difference!

    One of the responsibilities of pastors is to help name our current reality. I think we’ve focused too much on the reality and left out the faith motivation to propel us to a new and grace-filled future. What difference does the Jesus/Spirit/God factor play in what can occur? Will we allow the Spirit to have the power to move us in that direction?

    Thanks, Dan, for this post.

    1. Bob Brooke Avatar

      It is hard to get people to gather for prayer. My experience is that we’re much more likely to talk about what we need to do in prayer than actually getting down to the “sweating drops of blood” hard work of praying itself. How do you invite people to come and die with Christ? for His sake?

    2. John Hauck Avatar
      John Hauck

      I believe I heard Jim Cymbala, pastor of the Brooklyn Tabernacle, mak the statement that “You can tell how popular Jesus is by the numbers at prayer meeting.” One of our Adult Sunday School classes is studying hi book “When God’s People Pray” and I hope it leads to a revival of prayer in our congregation.
      Thanks, Dan, for some great ideas. We need to be on our knees in prayer and I look forward to hearing about a prayer focus for General Conference 2012.

  5. Ken Sloane Avatar
    Ken Sloane

    Dan, like Tom above I read regularly but rarely comment — I do repost, as I will today. And I will continue to encourage folks I meet across the church to read you regularly. Great piece, and I do appreciate your insights.

  6. Jim Searls Avatar
    Jim Searls

    Identifying old problems…What a notice of failure!

    I too always felt that the “Do something” missed the point. I usually add “Do Something even if it is wrong”. I find that this forces action, reflection, correction and further action.

  7. Tom Albin Avatar
    Tom Albin

    Dan, I read you post regularly and comment infrequently; however, I have to say that this is one of your very best. There are more options and thank you for naming option 4 in your blog: “enter a period of serious prayerful discernment where we honestly put everything on the table and refuse to protect our sacred cows (gutsy, risky, exciting, scary, and requiring visionary, decisive leadership).” Methodism began as a response to prayer and the movement of the Holy Spirit–and I believe our future is in that same direction. Within a week or two, I want to share with you what is happening in the prayer ministry for General Conference 2012.

    1. Dan R. Dick Avatar
      Dan R. Dick

      Hey, Tom, good to hear from you. I am very interested in whatever prayer focus we will bring to our work and life together at GC!

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