In 1996, The United Methodist Church clarified and refined its mission to be “making disciples of Jesus Christ.”  Twelve years later, it amended the mission to include “for the transformation of the world.”  In essence and in fact, we have declared that our reason for existing is to form, equip, empower, and encourage Christian believers to live as Christian disciples in the world, so that the world might be changed and come to more closely resemble the realm (kingdom) of God.  This is an ambitious declaration.  It is not enough to nurture people, to strengthen them, to teach them Good united-methodist20logoNews, to offer them a panoply of services and programs — our primary and defining purpose is transformation — to make disciples out of mere believers.  To take this seriously, most of our congregations must make a painful and laborious shift from ‘Christian service provider’ to ‘disciple making system.’

But the prior question is simply this:  do United Methodists really want to be Christian disciples?

All too many of our congregational and conference leaders assume that the members of the church know what discipleship is, know what discipleship costs, and want to live the life of Christian discipleship.  Most of our congregations have never tested this assumption.  Research I conducted from 2004-2008 explores the United Methodist understanding and definition of discipleship, and examines our denomination-wide commitment (or lack of same) to the mission of “making disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world.”  Note that the research was all done prior to the “official” amendment of “for the transformation of the world.” (More about that later.)

To be completely honest, this is not a “yes/no” question.  More accurately and helpfully, the question is “what percentage of United Methodists really want to be Christian disciples?”  The most accurate answer to this revised question is, “Less than 10%.”  This poses an interesting dilemma.  What happens to The United Methodist Church if we take our mission seriously?  What response can we expect from the 90+% who don’t really want to be disciples, but are perfectly happy pursuing a faith of low expectations and low demands?

The research study sample: over 7,000 United Methodists returned a very short, simple survey form asking them to define discipleship, name and prioritize the essential practices of Christian discipleship, to rate how well their congregation helped them understand discipleship and helped them to engage in disciple-forming practices, and to describe what the life of a Christian disciple looks like.  The sample well represents the current reality of The United Methodist Church — 61% of the sample is female, 66% are over the age of 50, 58% is Anglo/15% African American/13% Hispanic-Latino/8% Asian-Pacific Rim/4% mixed-multi-cultural/2% Native American.  78% fall into a middle-/upper middle-economic-class.  35% are college graduates, with 11% holding post-graduate degrees.  22% are lifelong Methodists (or EUB), 79% are lifelong Christians, 43% have been in their current church for less than 10 years.  77% attend worship at least twice a month, 57% are members of a Sunday school class or Bible study.

Random results:  71% of respondents define a ‘Christian disciple’ as “someone who believes that Jesus Christ is the one, true Son of God,” (or a reasonably similar definition).  16% define discipleship as “following the teachings of Jesus Christ.”  8% define discipleship as “reorienting and reorganizing ones life to live like Jesus.” 4% define discipleship as “radically changing ones life to become the body of Christ in ministry with others.”  86% of respondents report that they believe they are “living as Christian disciples,” but it is important to note that the vast majority of these people come from the first two definitions (simply believing in Jesus or trying to follow his teachings).

Again, those who define discipleship as belief rather than action think their church is doing a wonderful job equipping and supporting them.  The more demanding and sacrificial the definition, the poorer people feel they are being equipped to live as disciples.

The key characteristics of discipleship follow the same digression:  for the 71% who feel that believing in Jesus Christ is the definition of a disciple, “going to church” (worship) and “praying” are the two primary (and only necessary) characteristics.  Disciples can do more if they want to, but they don’t need to.  Those who define discipleship as following the teachings of Jesus add, “being kind to others,” “reading/studying the Bible,” “helping out at church,” and “giving money to the church,” to “going to church” and “praying.”  Then there is a distinct shift between this 87% and the remaining 13%.  The next two levels describe a radical reorientation — changing core behaviors and practices to be more like Jesus Christ.  Words like “daily” and “regular” are added to “worship” and “prayer.”  Studying the Bible is paired with “sharing the faith.”  “Teaching” is paired with “learning.”  “Being kind to others” morphs into “doing good for others.”  Celebrating the sacrament of Holy Communion is more important.  Connecting with other people to do good works in the community is more important.  “Sacrificial” giving of not just money, but of time and energy and gifts is central.  Doing for others is of high importance — not just for the individual, but in synergistic groups.  praying-handsOpenness to strangers, the poor and marginalized, and to the needy is named as a characteristic of discipleship at these levels.  Being willing to risk comfort, security, health, and safety are all mentioned here.  The defining characteristics of discipleship for this 13% raises the bar and bears very little resemblance to the vision of the other 87%.  For almost 90% of United Methodists, discipleship is passive, rather than active — a kind of spectator sport.  For 1-in-8 (12.6%) discipleship is the game on the field — you can’t just watch, you have to play.

But even of the 1-in-8, it is interesting to note that, while they define discipleship the way they do, approximately half confess that they are not actively pursuing a life of discipleship.  For some it seems too hard, while for others it simply isn’t a high priority.  Of the 13% who hold a more rigorous definition of discipleship only 1-in-25 (4%) say their church does a very good job of pushing, promoting, or providing solid support for living as a Christian disciple.  96% of this group relate that the quest to live as an authentic disciple is pretty much left to the individual.  This tracks closely with reports from serious disciples who have left the denomination because they find little help growing to the deepest levels of Christian maturity.

So that brings us to the 7% or so who desperately want to live as Christian disciples in the world and look to the church to help them with this journey.  These are the people I followed up with by phone and email to hear what they had to say about being equipped to live transformed and transforming lives in the world.  I offer five quotes that illustrate the five key hungers of disciples-in-formation:

I need discipline — I need help developing the kinds of habits and practices that bring me closer to God and enable me to live the kind of life that is most pleasing to Jesus.  I need a “personal coach” (or coaches) who will train me spiritually the way a personal trainer works with someone seeking physical development.  I need structure and encouragement to keep growing.  I need a church that will demand something from me.  I need someone to drive me beyond what I think I am capable of — you know, no pain, no gain, that sort of thing.  I want those more mature than myself to guide me to new heights.

I need a tight cadre of like-minded, like-spirited people who will hold me accountable and who are deeply committed to growing as disciples as I am.  I need help to be better than I am now.  I need a team — a family — a network of people who will work with me and grow with me.  And I need them to be willing to do whatever it takes to perform.

I need to be different than the rest of the world.  I don’t want to waste my life.  I want to make a difference.  I don’t want to sit on my couch and channel surf.  I want to go out and work with people and help people.  I want to learn all I can about discipleship so I can take it into the world.  I don’t want to be a hearer, I want to be a doer. 

When people look at me, I don’t want them to see me.  I want them to see Jesus.  I want them to understand God better because of what I say and do.  I want to let people understand that a life lived in God’s light is better than anything else.  I don’t want people to criticize the church because it is full of hypocrites and liars.  I want to let my living do my talking for me.  I want the church to help me live in such a way that other people notice and say, “I want that for my life, too!”

 I have a deep hunger to know God’s will, and I want a faith community that will help people to DO God’s will.  I want to immerse myself in God, to know as much of God as I possibly can.  I don’t want a lot of legalistic, narrow-minded church talk.  I don’t want to know who to hate or condemn.  I don’t want to focus on sin.  I don’t want to know what’s wrong with everybody else.  I want to know God, to know God’s will, and to do God’s will.  I want to understand LOVE as the embodiment and identity of God, and I want to learn how to be LOVE for others.  I’m so tired of churches making me less than I need to be.  I would love to find a church that could help me be more.  But churches (in United Methodism) seem so much more focused on themselves than they do on God.

There is is significant segment of United Methodists (if we are a denomination of 8,000,000, then 7% is 560,000!) who deeply desire to be real, authentic, living, breathing Christian disciples.  Over a half million people want to assume the mantle of Jesus the Christ to be the body of Christ for the world.  Where Jesus struggled to find 100, we have available to us over 500,000 people wanting the church to help them take up their cross to walk in the world as Jesus did.  This is AMAZING.

tsunamibelmontumcnashville1But there is a problem.  Essentially, it is this:  the 7-13% of people most committed to discipleship are predominantly the leaders of our local congregations — and their primary work is not to transform the world, but to provide ministries and service to the 87% who have little or no desire to become disciples!  The United Methodist Christians most committed to living as Christian disciples feel that the church is not helping them to do that very thing.  In fact, they name Disciple groups and Companion in Christ groups and Walk to Emmaus groups and Habitat for Humanity groups as their “real” church.

What happens when church leaders get serious about discipleship in The United Methodist Church?  Three things:  people not interested in discipleship leave, conflict (in the short term) increases dramatically, and the system (Conference leadership) tends not only NOT to support the shift, but in fact often works against it.  So, do we really want to be Christian disciples in The United Methodist Church?  The answer seems to be “NO.”

Christian discipleship is much more than merely confessing Jesus Christ is Lord.  It is about living a particular kind of life in the modern world.  Disciples want discipline and structure that pushes them to be better.  Disciples want a tight-knit community of like-minded pilgrims to join them on the journey.  Disciples want to be radically and distinctly counter-cultural, pursuing a scriptural set of values that demand sacrifice and commitment.  Disciples want to be a witness in thought, word, and action that show the entire world how awesome and wonderful our God is.  Disciples have an insatiable hunger for God that motivates them to dedicate themselves to prayer, study, worship, and service that completely transforms their lives and makes them “new” people.  That’s what disciples want, but it is not what almost 9-out-0f-10 United Methodists want.  This is an important issue that all levels of our denomination — from the local church to the council of bishops to the General Conference — need to address.

36 responses to “Do United Methodists Want to BE Disciples?”

  1. RevAnne Avatar

    Dan, you rasie a really interesting question here. What is the operative definition of “disciple” in the UMC as a denomination? And what is yours?
    I think all too often we’re talking at cross-purposes. I appreciate your (constructive) criticism of conference and general board leadership who are too concerned with the bottom line. The push among bishops for professions of faith seems symptomatic; it’s less about getting active, thriving, growing members who are meeting Christ in a way that changes their lives (which can happen with people who have been members all their lives, as well as those who’ve never had a church home) than it is about being able to post a number, a statistic that says, “No, we’re not on life support. Not us. No way.”
    We’re called to serve all kinds of people. There certainly is a mission field within our UMC, as well as outside it. As our culture changes and our church changes along with it, it will be interesting to see if the UMC can ride the changes and come out transformed on the other side, or if we will become so protective of our institution that we are unable to fulfill our mission.

    1. doroteos2 Avatar
      doroteos2

      Thanks, Anne. There are a few points I can underscore that I believe would be helpful. First, I think there must be a clear distinction between merely believing that Jesus is the Son of God and making a commitment to live as a Christian disciple. There is plenty of scriptural support for such a position. Also (second) I believe that we need to emphasize that discipleship is a phase of the Christian life, not the end-point. The twelve are referred to as disciples until Pentecost, then it is their followers who are referred to as disciples. While we never stop learning, there is an implicit message that those who follow will one day lead, those who learn will one day teach, and that those who receive are being trained to serve. Third, I promote a simple but vitally important exercise wherever I go. I think it is beneficial to begin having conversations in our churches and conferences that ask the following questions: what is a disciple? what is a disciple for? how do you make a disciple? who makes a disciple? how do you know when you have made one? and what do you do with disciples once they are made? Some of these are artificial questions, but they stimulate some deep thinking about what it means to “make disciples of Jesus Christ.” Similarly, I have begun challenging people to answer these questions as well: what does a transformed world look like? how is the world transformed? who transforms it? what is the church’s role and responsibility in the transformation of the world? why do we need disciples to transform the world?

      I don’t think this has to be as difficult as we make it. What will make it irrelevant is, a) if we don’t do anything to clarify what we mean, and b) if we determine that there must be one universally agreed upon definition of what we mean. This is a keen example of what it means to “work out our own salvation with fear and trembling.” We need to get serious about understanding our mission, then we’ve got to have the guts to make it happen.

      1. RevAnne Avatar

        I agree wholeheartedly.
        I’m blessed with a terrific congregation that is mostly on a path to and through discipleship as you define it. (And thanks for that clarification! We have a real language problem in the Church in that we no longer have definitions in common for so many of the words that are core to our faith/history.) What I don’t have is a sense that this kind of living growing vital congregational ministry is valued by the church hierarchy. I think the current drive for professions of faith reflects a narrow understanding of disciple as church member, contributing in some way, and places little value on growing disciples and leaders in the church.
        I guess I was fortunate to grow up in a disciple-making church, and so the drive to equip and empower others in ministry has always been foundation to my sense of call and vocation. But I’m not feeling particularly supported in my district and conference. I am committed to working for change from within, but it can be discouraging. On the other hand, there’s so much potential in the UMC, so much to reclaim and to re-vision, that I want to see what we become.
        Thanks for your blog and sharing your work in this way. I appreciate your heart in wanting to see God’s vision for the UMC come to fruition.

  2. Joe Hamby Avatar
    Joe Hamby

    Hi Dan,
    I just recently discovered your blog. Thanks for your challenging words! Last year I rediscovered Ng’s classic volume on youth ministry, “Youth In The Community of Disciples.” Ng believed the church should challenge our youth and youth ministries to a risky discipleship on the same level as Bonhoeffer’s underground seminary at Finkewalde. Powerful stuff. His book is sadly out of print.

  3. eric pone Avatar
    eric pone

    Maybe we don’t worry about this. Maybe there should be a movement back to the classes and bands and societies. Our denomination has broken out into the disciples and the multitudes. Maybe we should walk out Jesus’ strategy and put the resources and key ministries into their hands and grow the multitude to support those efforts. The denomination would grow the Kingdom far faster putting disciples to the field and developing them FIRST versus trying to convert more of the multitude.

    Secondly, has anyone thought that maybe we should redefine membership altogether? Maybe we should focus on two ‘tiers’. One level for attenders which is focused on basic service, prayer, and giving and one for disciples which is far more rigorous. Your Thougts

    1. doroteos2 Avatar
      doroteos2

      I am right there with you concerning membership standards, Eric. I think we need more than “active/inactive” and I think we owe it to the people who are most serious about growing in the faith to focus more attention on the “advanced” aspects of discipleship. We can get alot more members without gaining any disciples, but I believe if we do better empowering disciples, they will attract more members/participants. (I could be wrong…)

      1. Katie Dawson Avatar

        I’m there with you Eric. I am going to work on implementing a core covenant discipleship group among those in my congregation who are passionate about becoming disciples and nurture them and then after a few months, work on building the bridge from that initial “class meeting” to helping each member build another. We have a whole lot of believers in our churches – which is wonderful – but we need to encourage and support and hold accountable our disciples too.

        And I agree Dan – empowering disciples can absolutely transform not only our congregations, but possibly also the world.

  4. revswanson Avatar
    revswanson

    This is the kind of thing we need to know about and think about. In my experience, people have very different views on what we mean by discipleship, and I do believe that the majority of people want church and their faith to be easy, simple, and non-demanding. And these are the people we focus on. We don’t want to make them unhappy or, heaven forbid, the least bit uncomfortable.
    I would think this is the very thing that our boards and agencies would be helping us with. Why did this never come out before? This is very helpful stuff, and it inspires people to begin thinking more deeply about why we are here.
    We need people like you to point us to the important issues facing the church. Instead of just wanting to get bigger, I feel like you want us to get better, and I applaud you for that. I have been very sorry to see that you are not with Discipleship anymore. What you do is more valuable than anything I see coming from Discipleship. They should be knocking down your door to get you to come back!

    1. doroteos2 Avatar
      doroteos2

      Thanks for the kind and supportive words, rev. I’m afraid the general boards and agencies aren’t too concerned with these issues right now, being driven instead by budget and growth concerns. I was told to stop “messing around” with this while at the GBOD. The leadership there did not believe this was important work (nor, obviously would they agree with you, that I was valuable enough to keep, let alone to have me come back…). This is a matter of vision and values — what is most important to being God’s people in the 21st century. I have no argument that “making disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world,” is a worthy and lofty goal. I simply don’t see the denomination aligning its resources to make it happen. Therefore, it falls to each local congregation and the congregation’s leadership to cast a vision that aligns with the mission. When congregation’s “raise the bar” and become truly committed to making disciples, it has consequnces. Until we are willing to risk losing some of those with no interest in discipleship in order to serve and support this who do want to be disciples, transformation is not a vision, but merely a dream.

  5. Katie Dawson Avatar

    So, I’m new to your blog – but I was posting on a very similiar topic today and I’m preparing for a sermon series on our five membership “commitments”: prayers, presence, gifts, service and witness.

    I’m really wrestling with what discipleship means theologically. I think Steve had a very good point that most of the people who followed Jesus around the countryside were not disciples. And most of the people in our churches (looking at these numbers) aren’t that type of disciple either, and to be honest, don’t really want to be one right now.

    Part of me wants to say – that’s okay.

    Part of me is screaming – that’s not enough!

    But the rest of me is convicted that as a pastor I need to be providing opportunities for those who want to be disciples and that by doing so… by equipping, nurturing and sustaining disciples, all the rest will take care of itself.

    1. doroteos2 Avatar
      doroteos2

      Katie, glad that you found the blog. My take on the discipleship issue is three-fold: first, once an organization establishes a mission, it needs to do everything in its power to make sure everyone knows what the mission means and what the expectations are. If we are a “disciple-making” church, then people need to understand what that precisely means. We have not done that very well. Second, while the vast majority of our church participants may never become disciples, our first order of business must be to teach, promote, equip, empower, support, and nurture those most committed to discipleship. If we do not do it, and do it well, it will not happen anywhere else. Third, disciples become the teacher-leaders of our congregations. If we want to provide the highest quality and most effective ministry, we will accomplish this better the more disciples we actually produce. The tragedy I see at the moment is that we are not adequately feeding and nourishing real disciples in our manic desire to attract more believers.

      As to your reflections on the five membership commitments, let me point you to an earlier blog I wrote, called, “The Big Five.”

  6. Steve Manskar Avatar
    Steve Manskar

    We need to remember that only a small number of men and women who followed Jesus were known as disciples. The vast majority were admirers, curious, or wanted something from Jesus (usually healing). Also, Wesleyan Methodism was never a mass movement. The numbers of Methodists during Wesley’s life time were, compared to other mass movements, fairly small. This is, I believe, because of the Wesleyan insistence on maintaining discipline within the societies, classes and bands. The vast majority of Christians are not willing to submit themselves to such discipline.

    Thanks, Dan, for another excellent post. I wish you and Barbara all the best and warmest wishes and prayers as you prepare for your move to Wisconsin. I wonder if the Wisconsin conference has any idea how blessed they will be by you and Barbara.

  7. John Meunier Avatar
    John Meunier

    Do you think these numbers can change? Will there ever be more than a small minority who want the deep discipleship you describe?

    Maybe that is why John Wesley insisted on not letting his societies become churches.

    1. doroteos2 Avatar
      doroteos2

      I think the numbers CAN change, and I think they need to change, but I don’t think they will ever become a majority. In the same way that many believed in Jesus but chose not to follow him when he was physically present, so many in our day will do the same (in his physical absence). For me, the real issue is that we, as a denomination, made “disciple-making” our stated purpose, without perhaps ‘counting the cost.’ The world needs disciples, and the UMC has made a commitment to provide them. We need to do a better job with the 500,000+ we already have, and we need to make plans to increase this number as much as we possibly can.

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