Where is the power and energy at Annual Conference this year? I am not talking about any one Annual Conference — I’m talking about all of them. Is our energy toward building, creating, forming, bridging, healing, mending, bonding, uniting, and becoming? Or is it about conflict, controversy, contention, competition, factions, divisions, agendas, and egos? Oh, I know, it’s both — but I’m talking about our intentions. I am talking about the decisions we make going in. Are we going in as positive forces for transformation or negative forces for getting our own way? Are we going in open to possibilities or are we going in loaded for bear to champion a personal cause? Are we seeking to solve problems or create new ones? Each person has to make up her or his own mind about what kind of attitude and approach she or he will take. Where is our energy?
This is a different question than “where is our power?” — and that may be part of our problem. Annual Conference — and church in general — has come to be so much more about our power to control our own destinies than about God’s power to transform the world. This is a personal observation, gained by attending no less than 31 different annual conferences over the past 15 years (this is the first year that I have only attended my own annual conference since 1995…). What I have seen over the past decade-and-a-half are lots of hurt feelings and endless controversies grounded in a lack of trust and respect, an insistence on narrowly defined theologies from one end of the spectrum to the other, and an unwillingness to concede even one opinion or belief. It is not a pretty sight. And, sadly, it only takes a handful of people to define the energy of the whole Annual Conference. The vast majority of people hold a positive attitude and energy. They love the church and the love the annual meeting. They bask in worship and learning, take very seriously the policy-making, and enjoy the fellowship with other United Methodists. Most have no desire to spend lots of time arguing, debating, fighting, or posturing. They are there to celebrate the work and witness of The United Methodist Church. But that is rarely what gets reported or remembered. Conference after conference, I hear people lament about something that happened at the 2004 or 2006 session. A big bru-ha-ha, a blow-up, a fight. Conference leadership tend to talk about what went well; conference members talk about “the good stuff.”
Is it all bleak? By no means. That’s the point. It doesn’t have to be negative. It doesn’t have to erupt in endless controversy. We don’t have to be The Divided Methodist Church. With very little effort and a small commitment to stay positive, many of our conference encounters could take a 180 degree turn. The key is that WE WANT TO be better. If people make a commitment to make something work, then they find a way to succeed. They don’t give up on each other. They don’t attack each other. They may not like each other, but they care enough to find a way to work things out. This shouldn’t be so hard for Christians to grasp. The reconciling love of God that gave us redemption through Jesus Christ is alive and well and present in the Holy Spirit. (Yes, this is a statement of personal belief. It is a theological, rather than a factual, statement…) The same power that destroys the dividing walls of hostility is available to us today. How we are different and what we disagree over does not have to define us. How we are the same and what we can accomplish together could define us. But we have to want that to happen.
Where is the energy coming from this year at our Annual Conferences? And will we draw from God’s power, or will we fight over our own power, in such short supply?
I attended the Illinois Great Rivers Annual Conference as a guest speaker this year– and it was a truly wonderful time. The Conference seems to have a strong, positive sense of its common ministry and was not ashamed to promote their best common efforts to generate even better results. Worship worked well, consistently. Presiding from the podium and from the Lord’s Table (there were two plenary communion services– memorial service and ordination– during these days, plus additional opportunities each morning sponsored by the Order of Saint Luke) was generous, gracious and loving. Where there was floor debate, it was always respectful, and never ad hominem, condescending, or contemptuous of the opinions of others.
Frankly, it was the best annual conference session I had ever attended.
Keep up the great work, Illinois Great Rivers folk!
For the last several years, the West Ohio Conference has not only voted, sang, worshiped, and politicked together, but have played. The addition of recreation to our week has changed the tenor of Conference. Sadly this year our voting for our CFO darkened the attitude throughout conference.
The Western PA Annual Conference was refreshingly positive. There were no big controversies. Now next year in preparation for GC 2012 will be more of a challenge. I am trying to look at the world in a new way-less us vs them and more we’re all in it together.
I had a vision where I saw the world as already the kingdom of God, everyone reconciled with each other and everyone at peace. It gave me a different feeling and perspective.
Look for the woman with the chocolate chip cookies. She’s handin’ out the love.
Maybe I should make Chocolate Chip cookies every year! Nothing like a little home made love to help sweeten the experience!
The Virginia Annual Conference starts Sunday night. It will be interesting to see how things shake out this year.
Our Annual Conference meeting focused on the theme of Extravagant Generosity. Although we have our distrust issues, AC itself went very well. Bishop Huie has done a good job maintaining a positive focus in the conference. We still have plenty to do, but at least there are positive signs.
Fantastic! There is always good — it’s nice when it outweighs the negative. I just wish we gave the same weight to the positive we seem to give the negative.